Quote: I get really tired of this. it has been an issue for the better part of our r not just our marriage and not just a result of the sit or the entrance of ow into the pic (h had started to withdraw sexually long before she moved to town) Some question come to mind, when does he like sex, morning or eveing, m-f or weekends. Are you guys going on weekly dates? If not force yourselves to go, it takes a while for this to become normal.
Does H percieve you as controling? A guy likes to think he is in control. Does he know about the 10 touches a day rule?
You say he is aware of the LOVE TANK concept, so is he asking daily if it is being filled. In my mind this would be very hard for him to ask, so a system might be is he holds up as many fingers as his tank is and you do the same. Or some other private system. For instance, let say you are not happy over something and instead of talking you hold up 3 fingers, he instantly knows how full you love tank is and will fix it. Not right away, he will have to think on it. M/V cave time.
Quote: I can find no correlation to anything....it is simply random and it's very annoying!!!!!! almost makes me not enjoy it when it does happen becuase I don't know where it is comming from and when it will happen again. arg!!! Are you sure, maybe keep a diary of him, for at least a month. Then check it for your corelation. I am a low D person, and my favorite was sunday morning, I did not like it in the eveing, she was the opposite. she like it in the eveing. Also somewhere in her mid-fourties her sex drive when way up. She said she could have it every day. And she complained that it was not long enough, she stated her girlfriend had 2 1/2 hour or more sessions. Our were usally around an hour. Now not to say she did not O, in fact she O continuously and I would get tired before her. So there were times I just ignore her advance because I was not up to making love that long. A quicke would have been fine.
As a side note my LF is the same way her drive when way up in her mid forties. She also likes to wake her parner up by suction. If you get my drift.
I will let you know a secret, most guys would be fine with a quickee only. One of natures cruel jokes, after a guys O's a sleep hormone is released.
