SPM - Do actions really speak louder than words .....
Your actions would would make a mockery of that saying. You say your acting all cool and happy when in fact you are really wanting your W back.
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Sixteen year old people are ok being home alone, as long as there is quality time with you at smoe other time of course).
Thats kind of funny. Wait till you have 16 year olds. Too cool to hang out with mum, but young enough to need to know your about.
Family all bar brother live overseas ( for now ). Your right , that is changing soon and I could lean on them a bit more when they are back.
Meanwhile , I do go to the gym, I do look after myself in appearance. I work , i laugh and I have lots of friends but mainly married. Small country here , so oppotunities to expand are limited but not bad. Events and stuff are just spread out and not large numbers , so little harder to ease into new activities if shy and on your own,
Hmmmmmm why do I want H back ? Do I love him ? Is it just the lack of control I miss ? Why would I want to spend the rest of my life with someone who has treated me so bad ? Is it because I remember what it used to be like ? Can it ever be like that again? Why did i have an A, really. Not something I would of ever done I thought. Even now I shake my head at the wonder of it all.
Wish i had a crystal ball.
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You will embrace the change in him, and allow it to happen, not resist it.
Not sure how this works. How do you embrace something that is tearing you apart. It makes me withdraw further. I see it as another step away. Can marriages ever come back from this kind of separation ?
So many questions tonight.
Rugby was ok. Party afterwards fantastic except that H never came within spitting distance if me. In fact it was horrible ( that bit ) So I took myself home. He turned up later to spend the night. I let him ! Should I of said NO ?
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, what they do with their mom. She doesn't do anything with them.
I am going to defend your wife here. Sometimes doing for the kids 24/7 leaves you not much time for play. It is hard work. As woman we feel and do differently for the kids than men. Not better and not worse , just different. It leaves us tired both physically an d emotionally.
Would she consider perhaps a family outing once a month or shared birthday, holiday dinners ? i know that is when you most miss the partner . Sharing happy occasions can only be good for all.
Maybe you should ask her. ( If you can )
Shame about the rings. Do you think she will ever come round ? What are you waiting for?
