If I knew 100% she was I wouldn't confront her or her parents, do things like this eventually come out even if you remained silent?
I could not hide what was going on any longer as h became like a madman just after the time we found out about the a and i felt close enough to my in laws to say something.
i also kept in close contact with my sister in law who is a lawyer and family counselor back east.
when your husband moves out and has been gone over two years, it is pretty hard to keep it a secret, esp. when we would call my in laws about twice a month and all of us would talk to them.
by the way, i thought we would never cheat on each other either due to our beliefs but my husband has been cheating for four years now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
