Honestly it sounds like this is a very good time for you in many ways. Maybe the adversity has brought the chance for you to be closer to your H again, and for him to see how much he wants to be with you. I am not sure about the background to your situation, but do you think it's possible that he is thriving on the chance to get to be the strong one in the relationship, to get to protect you? It seems like most of us with WAHs were in situations where we sort of controlled everything, and they felt like they were being taken along for the ride. If you turn that around, maybe that offers a ray of hope. I know that the time I thought my H and I got along best was when I was diagnosed with a condition, and he spent the summer sort of trying to take care of me. Though I was very sick and scared, I still see that as our best 3 months together.
I also think it's really impressive that your H apologized to your father, amazing.
Lola I'm thinking good thoughts for you. You really deserve them. Stay positive!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
