I know what is missing for me is passion, excitement or heck just plain old physical contact.
I get very frustrated (and not simply sexual frustration) when I make a subtle attempt to intiate and am told "sleep momma" or "I'm tired".
last week I initiated on fri night and sat night and both were accepted, sun nights attempt was met with "I just want to sleep...tommorrow night" wich led to nothing at all till the following sun afternoon when he was suddenly interested.
I get really tired of this. it has been an issue for the better part of our r not just our marriage and not just a result of the sit or the entrance of ow into the pic (h had started to withdraw sexually long before she moved to town)
very very frustrating...
why is it only when he wants to or is in the mood.
I can find no correlation to anything...it is not what I wear or say or do...time of day or day of week...it is simply random and it's very annoying!!!!!! almost makes me not enjoy it when it does happen becuase I don't know where it is comming from and when it will happen again. arg!!!
