Praying and hoping that my H will take the risk too. And I do think they see it as a risk. They know what they think they have with OW. I am sure H thinks that I would never forgive him (although I told him I would and if he would promise to never do it again, I think I would be okay.)and he would be fighting and arguing with an insecure B*ch all the time. What he doesn't know is how my love has grown for him to be truly unconditional.

Keep up the PMA! You sound great. Did you ever read After the Affair? It is a great book.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.