I think that when we can look at our STBX and think "will you just go already" we are in a good spot for us. I still have moments when there is pain, that will take time to get over, but I can see the hope for a new life at the end of the tunnel.
Its funny, I no longer care about my STBXH being with OW. I just do not want someone who has such low morals being around my S. But since my STBXH keeps saying that they are not in a relationship, then I dont have to wory about it quite yet. Its funny, I could handle any other woman in his life at this point, just not the one who helped break up my M. Oh well, nothing I can do about it.
I have not been to Lumiere Place yet. I have heard good things also. Lets make a date and go. We can tear the place up and have some really great cocktails! Just let me know when.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008