Wow Upside we will have to see what happens with your h. I don't really think the ultimatums work, but it depends on what you want. Your h is making progress, but baby steps.

It's interesting I said the same thing to my h awhile back and said what's it going to take and his response was I don't know. Hmmmmm confirms they all must think alike.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"