hey B, I'm sorry your feeling sad today. Just pick yourself back up again, cause you can do this.
I agree, not to ride together. I think it's good that he suggested though. I know that he still wants you at times. but he is no where near ready, even if he chose to end it with OW. And your right not to try to figure out everything he says. He goes back and forth so much anyways, as well as you too( your getting much better though i must add) so whatever he does or says, you really have to let go and not put all your energy into it cause he'll do something the opposite the next time.
Nik is right that you guys should probably have some type of life ins. sometimes your jobs will have some for free, but it's usually not much. I've been researching a lot on life ins, so if you ever want to email me, I'd be happy to explain what I found out.
okay, one thing I'm not sure if it's a good idea, is to keep reiterating that you can do this on your own without his help. right?? I mean, if you keep telling him you don't need him, then can he do something with that? IDK. I'm just thinking that you should probably emphasize more that you are both her parents and that she needs help from both of you.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
