lwb, I cant believe how strong you are....when my STBXH does things around the house or just hangs out I used to think "Oh my god, he is wanting to be with me. Maybe he is coming around!!!" Now I just think when is he going to leave. Funny how that detaching thing works. I cant believe your H still thinks that you are a friends with benefits sitch. I am so proud of you for saying no. Is he still with his OW?

I remember a conversation we had a few months ago about some of the trigger places that he used to go to with OW on the landing. If you ever need a buddy to go and drink it up with you to turn these places into your new spots let me know. It really helped me to know that I can have a great time there as well.

Sorry about D, but sounds like she was in good hands. Thanks for checking in on me as well. Take care.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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