Nik, how wonderful that you and your H got to have a nice diner out. Sorry it ended witht he ick factor. As someone who lived through a betrayal, I'm sure your dad really appreciated the support you gave him. It just goes to show you that no matter how old you get, this stuff is always hard. I have to admit that the thought of EVER going through this again makes me gun shy about dating. I think I have learned many lessons though and will not let my R get to the point it did with my STBXH.
You and your H have come so far...from I never loved you, to healthy debates over discovery channel shows to wonderful diner. You are an inspiration to those still trying to work things out. When I read your first post I truly did not think you guys would make it. Of course I really thought that I would be a success story. Guess it goes to show you that I really dont know anything.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
