Aiming for a new me 13

[MidwesternGirl]

Yeah, I would tell him you need cash as you have no checks and cannot afford to order them.

He will have to give you cash. Probably not a bad thing.

These guys are not always responsible or on time for that matter.

[Maya44]

Okay, just checked and he put $160 in! Praise God! I was getting VERY nervous!! Now I have $56 in my account until Friday. Woo hoo. lol!

H sent me a tm afterwards too saying he had to go for xrays. I responded with a big thank you and asked what he needed xrays for and what they said it is. I blame the sex, but he doesn't find that funny.

[Maya44]

I think H meant to tm someone else but sent it to me. My tm to him said "Thanks sooo much!!! What did you need xrays for? What did they sayit is??" Then I get his reply of "Hopefully just a strain, but we will be."

I think the "but we will be" is to OW or someone. I'm trying not to think this way, but his tm made no sense on that part.

[fig]

he was talking to you via tm

so you will both see

hence the

we'll see

like he is going to tell you
you are in the conversation together

i say it all the time when I am talking to somebidy about something

Student: Ms F...will i have to retake the test i missed on Friday
Me: Well student...we'll have to see

[MidwesternGirl]

I am glad you got the $$$$.

Okay, relax now.

[MissH]

Dar,

I agree with figgy.

And your H sounds like my ex.

He's always pulling his back out (it's part of the depression) and I used to be down to my last dollar and would get anxiety over checks bouncing because he was late with the money.

Glad he gave you the money.

(((((hugs)))))

[glamgirl]

Yeah FG the money came in just in time. Another positive to add to your list.

I think Fig is right on the TM. Don't read into anything it won't help you!

[Maya44]

Thanks all. H clarified the tm. He said it meant to say "we will see" not "we will be". So I felt better.

Now, get this from my stupid bank! My bank just recently bought by another bank. H put cash into my account yesterday and it showed up as I told you all. Now today it's not there and my account is negative because the Walmart purchase went thru. I called the bank and they said that since he made the deposit at on original bank of theirs and not the one that was purchased, then even cash will take a day or 2 to clear. How freaking ridiculous is this!?!?!?! Doe-does! So now I'm waiting to see when the money will clear...hopefully tomorrow. At least he told me that if I get any fees charged, to call them since they are waiving these fees while these bugs are worked out.

H emailed me and is feeling better due to the meds the doctor gave him and he's planning on seeing D still today.

I really hate the sitch I'm in lately. I hate the limbo and just want to know which way this will go.

[MidwesternGirl]

can you go into the branch and get it cleared up. just because one bank is being bought by another should in no way effect the credits and deposits.

and since he was able to deposit that money, it was accepted. the cash taking a few days to clear--I have never heard of that one either.

what a mess.

[Maya44]

Yea, nice, isn't it? This bank purchase is ridiculous!