SD-- It was nice to see that Sunny and Chris stopped in - oldies but goodies And to hear the names of Nick, Still, Kat, Nomo....do you hear from them? I think of them often.
Your convo sounded like it went as expected. Have you lined up an IC for the kids? They might need to have an established relationship with someone they feel safe with, as your family moves through this transition....
You are a very strong man. Keep running, and having the focus on you and the littles.