For the first time I got the "you are trying to control me" when I told my W I was splitting our bank accounts and would not pay for the cell phone or house phone. I told her that I would not pay for anything that had to do with her contacting OM. She was livid threw her phone against the door, yelling, crying ect.
Sometimes she amuses me with the way she thinks about things. Some of the things she says are way off the wall.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does