Cinders, SallyM's (last posted her thread in Surviving, but is now piecing! Yay) husband moved in with OW fairly quickly after leaving her. Her H came back, and they are working things out. Now she is learning many things about his R with OW. And yes, sometimes it IS sunshine and roses, but most of it isn't. AND..snodderly is sooo right, the moving in thing? Well, that's just a big ol' permanent reminder that life is really about bills/jobs/stress/no sleep.