I do just write down things, but advice is always welcome. The one thing that kills me is the our complete lack of intimancy. I have let it go somewhat, do bring it up sometimes and he keeps saying "soon". I have also noticed that the more I leave him alone the more he seems to want to talk (about anything) and the more he says he loves me.


Me 40 H 41
T17/M14
Sons 7 and 4
OW - yes for over a year
"I don't know what I want" 5/29/08