Quote: Wondering if you and h have talked specifically about the time after your dd's birth. Sounds to me like that's an area that really needs to heal for you.
like the a itself the "things" that were done at that time will be addressed as they can be.
I at first thought all could be addressed at once but am now realizing that it's a process.
h's a took a while for him to be fully able to appologize for.
his neglect of me during that time, well I have mentioned it but I supppose it came from a place of anger so it wasn't recieved well.
now I'm just really sad about it, really, really sad. eventually it will be sorted out but mostly it will be my own sorting, I have to accept that time was that time and not fret about it being irreplaceable, heck I cried the last night I nursed her to sleep for pete's sake, knowing that would be the last time I would ever nurse a baby. at least h was comforting that night, suppose that is what I should focus on.
