Ok, I just want to put my 0.02 worth in. I have noticed even in my sitch where my STBXH is ADAMENT about wanting the D, when I pull away and completely detach he starts to peek his head back in. You have been a part of his life for awhile, it is something for him to get used to not having you around. Does that mean he is ready to come running home? No, I think it is their way of slowly cutting the bonds OR testing the waters. Too many times I have read that the LBS remaned very friendly with the WAS. The WAS would show many signs but never take the final leap to R. Personally, I just could not hold on any longer. I let go, completely and for real. I am no longer his security blanket if/when things fail on the OW front. He knows where I am and can find me if he ever gets his head back on straight.
I am saying this to you Stella because I dont want you to keep holding on, waiting and getting your heart hurt. I might just be projecting and if I am, thank you for allowing me to vent and disregaurd everything I have said. If I am not then let him go. Get yourself that wonderful life you so deserve. He will come to you if he gets his head out of his @ss and you may no longer want him.
You are doing great with all of the pain and false R. I just dont want to see you backslide, it is so painful. Hope I was not too harsh. Just want to see you happy because you so deserve it!
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
