I just got an email from a couple at my church saying that they got my name from the pastor as a potential "marriage mentor". HAHAHAHA. The irony kills me. Actually it kinda hurts.

Update needed: My h interviewed in Santa Maria, and very likely has the job. He has every intention of taking it. I don't understand someone that can move away from the kids. He's going to miss out on so much, and the kids are going to pay for it as well. If he wants to leave me, fine. But leaving your kids so you can live at the coast is unacceptable in my opinion.
So, now we need to prepare the house to sell, which kills me. I love my house. My kids love the house. But, I can't afford it on my own.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."