I know what you mean about actions speaking louder than words..... I wonder, are there any small things you could do to encourage him to spend the night? Have you invited him to? (I realise it's not a small thing, but I'm just wondering if he has a block about it of some kind).....another thing I wonder if whether he's making physical contact. Maybe that might encourage an overnight?
I'm sending good house and job vibes over to you. You always sound so great when you post, and I always smile at your H saying ILY, remembering how excited I was when he brought you Starbucks!
