I could not agree with you more. I have no choice but to keep this cordial for D7. In all honesty I am nowhere close to the dance floor. The next time if indeed there is one (at this point I do not think so)the burden will be on her.....I am not DBing in the sense that I am working at getting her back. I need to work on me. Get back to the old Johnny.
Toronto is a 1hr plane ride or 5hr. drive from me.
I have been taking care of D7 all week...actually my mom has been helping out alot. W wants to have supper and a movie with D7 but I have D7 again on Saturday night so that W can have a wine and cheese party with her new friends at the house....in the past this would have really pissed me off...today, I am happy I get to have D7 again. Incidentally, i don't think I am invited to supper or the movies....that is also fine with me....time to GAL. Things are looking up for me...I will be able to do this. Now if we can sell the house, I will get a nice chunk of change and start feeling even better. If it could only stop raining so that I could get in 18 holes tommorow..... BTW booked my yearly end of the year golf extravaganza with my two best buddies today.....end of October early November...hopefully no hurricanes for Miami this year. In the past we never really visited any places where women hang out during our FLA. vaca. Since we will have 2/3 single guys on this trip, things may change a little this time around...South Beach here we come!!!
It is fun and relaxing being a free single man out to GAL.
You single guys need to make sure that the married guy does not stray his eyes looking at any of the cute golf babes when you are in Florida.
All it is going to take is for John to sing some romantic songs in Italian (or French) at a Karaoke bar and the hot looking South Beach Florida babes are going to melt like butter.
Kerry, I can hold a tune but I have a hunch that it's going to take a little more than that! Especially in South Beach.
D7 asked me to join her and her mom for the movie. W said she did not mind. I politely declined....not because I was DBing, not because I wanted to show W that I was doing my own thing...just because I did not feel like being with W. Well maybe if W pushed a little. Kind of strange getting a hug and a double cheek kiss from W. I will get D7 again tommorow after my golf game....strangely W wants to meet half way. I guess she is concerned about me spending too much money on gas. I think I will have to remind her that the house she is living in is not hers. She probably does not want me to see the preperations for her big shindig. Anyhow, I will ask W to meet me half way on Sunday when I bring D7 back. She probably will not want me to see the mess left behind. Have a nice weekend everyone.
Hope the sun comes out and you can get some golfing in. I thought of you when they said the hurricane hit Cuba. I have mentioned you to my H a few times, as in "One of my friends is from Canada and they can just go to Cuba to visit, or buy Cuban cigars", etc. I am sure he is a little curious about how I know someone in Canada....
Enjoy D7 this weekend. Good for you on not going to the movie. Not that I wouldn't want you to go. But I have a terrible time doing what I want rather than trying to analyze what everyone else wants me to do, what would make them happy, etc. If you didn't feel like going, then good for going with your own decision.
Good to read what's going on and the way you're finding your stride. You have so many good boundaries and are aware of what does and doesn't work.
If regrets were nickles we'd all all be shiny.
You know your focus and your limits.
Recently I was talking to my 22 year old son who talked about how he was putting energy into cleaning the apartment he shared his college cohorts. I told him there is nothing sexier than a man who knows how to use a vacuum. When you're doing your Karoake make sure you bring a little featherduster or mini vac just to make sure the ladies swoon when you sing.
K, I am doing fine. Got in my 18 holes....picked up D7 at an outdoor mall. W was shopping...she had an awful lot of glasses in her basket. Double cheek kiss...exchanged a few pleasantries and away we went. Just had a nice homemade italian meal with my parents. D7 is now playing outside with a friend and I am typing away. I have to admit that I am a little lonely but I'll get over it. They are calling for rain here on Sunday so I will try to sleep in a little but with D7 in the apt., that may not be possible. I will take her back to her mom for the week and pick her up after school on Friday. W called twice on my cell and once at the apt....I did not pick up....again not for dbing purposes. I figure D7 is with me so even if it were some other type of emergency, she has a new circle of friends she could call. She did leave one message asking if we could go to the bank to take care of our stuff on Tuesday afternoon....let me know....oh by the way I think i am coming down with a cold or something. My question is this; can this not wait till tommorow when we meet for D7 and as far as the cold is concerned; Alex i'll take things i don"t give a rat's ass about for $500 please! I was talking to my golfing buddy (the divorced one) to set something up for tommorow afternoon. I told him do you know how many guys would like to be in our shoes on Sunday. We could get up watch Soccer from Italy and then watch the NFL all day...maybe even smoke a stoogie or two, have a few beers. Gypsy, I have to admit that i am not a big fan of vacuuming but if it is indeed sexy, i promise you that the first lady i bring to my new pad, i will vaccuum for a couple of minutes. BBJ,it was sunny today and it is funny that you thought of me when you saw Cuba getting pummeled. I figured you would think of Fidel or somebody like that. By the way just thought of this. this will be the first time W entertains without me. i think she will find it very overwhelming because in the past i more than held my own with the drinks and food. I hope her new girlfriends lend a hand.
Thinking of you today. Hope you got to sleep in yesterday. I tried to but both kids came in bed before 8:00...although 8 IS sleeping in compared to 6 a.m. I guess.
Take care, enjoy your freedom to watch sports and smoke stogies...maybe eat dinner sitting on the couch in your undies??
