Funny how people only tell us this stuff after the fact. For me it was very hard to hear, but it is what it is. Sometimes I think we see them as we choose to. I wonder now how much of ex was what I wanted him to be and how much of it was because it was who he wanted to be. I don't want to believe that it was a game for him. I have to know in my heart, that for a period of time anyway, he was a good husband and father. Far be it from me to rewrite history. That was done for me!
