Hi marisol and the T2L gang, I have not spoken in great detail to my family except my sister. Of course she says divorce H. I am trying to hold back until X-mas and D15 and me have to fly home for holiday. Sorry you lost 2 properties through this but credit can be restored. Your right about H - minimal credit card payment is $375 and he puts $400, and charges over $300 a month. Go figure. I told my H if he wanted to leave ok but I am keeping the house with D15 till she graduates (3 years) and he has to pay 1/2. so far he has agreed. Speaking of stories about M saved, I started a thread today under MLC - MLC - returning spouses-. I am looking for success stories. Go check it out. I don't know if anyone responded yet. I want to ask strategy questions.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
