New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[marisol35]

Wow...that is crazy...I bet the interest on the credit card isn't very good either....when its that high the monthly payments have to be over $300 per month!

I don't have any savings but I do have a 401K and a retirement plan which I am going to protect in the D papers. We lost two properties to foreclosure so the only real property I have are the truck and the car that I have. We signed a lease for the rental house we are in so I have to stay here until February. The house is huge b/c it was for all of us. I will most likely move into something smaller but in the same area so my D can graduate from the high school she is going too. No matter what I will not have her life impacted by this as much as possible. I mean she is hurt by all this but I was not about to change her schools and do all that so that I can get away. I can live with it until then.

What does your family say about your situation? In DR they say that friends and family just want you to feel better but that they can sometimes not be a good influence on you.

There have been stories that M have been saved at the last minute. I ask myself if that's what I truly want every day. At this moment in time part of me says yes but part of me says no. It is such an internal tug of war.