I strongly recommend that you NOT ride with him to mediation.. I can't believe he even suggested it.
Re: the "what if you/I died tomorrow" convo.. one thing I would make sure of when you do get to mediation is that you talk about life insurance! You should both have it, to help provide for Miss K in case something awful does happen. I know, sucks to think about it, but it's important.
I'm not going to answer your question because it's assumptions and mind-reading. But you know that.
((B)) Hope you can do something soon to get that PMA back up!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread