Marisol, it is not about revenge but about accountability. You pay the truck, you take the truck, glad that cell phone is turned over to him also. Your right when money starts getting tight for the OW she will not like it. My H has his own credit card and I found out that he has over $20,000 in charges, about $10,000 in the last year. He is going wild spending money. He never had to worry about it before but now...He will start freaking out. When he moves he is paying 1/2 the bills on our house mortgage etc and some support for our D. This will leave him with practically nothing. I split our savings and he will go through that quick. He has no concept of money or budgeting or bills. If he learns how to handle his finances and ends up coming home it will be a positive thing anyway. I have to be positive. Recently I have been looking at the MLC posts. These H's all sound the same. It is unbelievable but there are success stories. I pray for that.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
