Still waiting on wife

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I haven't posted in quite a while.Have been back home since March and we are getting along well as friends and parents.
Wife still says she does not have the feelings needed to be more than friends.
I really do appreciate the friendship and we talk more now than we have in along time,but we do not talk about intimate things or about getting past the friendship stage.
I do not want to push her away or make her uncomfortable,just doing allot of praying and being patient,but it is hard.
I know she has some sexual disires and know she takes care of them herself,would love if she would let me help her with that,but she is not there yet.
It is wierd that we get along so well as friends,we sleep in the same bed together every night,but we are just living together as friends.
I am crazy about this lady and will wait for her as long as it takes,I just struggle with what to do and how to express my love and my desires without making her feel pressured.
I have found out that when I back off and give her space and just be her friend that she tends to open up a little more and talks to me more.
So any advice on how I should proceeed would bre great,I really miss my wife and lover,but it doesn't seem to matter until she misses me.