Sandrika Please listen to Barb, shes right. Get to a L now- believe me when I rec'd the D papers from my ex, I didnt want to do anything but burn them! but you CAN NOT, you have to act on them, I had 30 days- its to protect you, and your S! think of everything you have worked for , for your family and your boy and realize, right now your H isnt thinking clear, or he is and he just dosnt care!
You can still DB even during a D!or after if you wish, but please please protect yourself. I went to a L and I think my ex knew I would, its basically a given. I still DBed thru out and even up till the D.
Protecting yourself is not giving up on your M, its just that protecting yourself
(( Sandrika )) we just want you and S to be ok. We care about you
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
