And, on the need for the honesty. You are not crazy...to me, that part hurt so much more than the actual affair. How could this man live in my roof, sleep in my bed, and lie to me almost daily for a year or more???? Interestingly enough, since we had that confrontation, he's actually said to me that he's glad it's out in the open too. He said that lying to me was the hardest thing he's ever done. Mind you, he's not giving up the OW, he's just not lying about that anymore!!!

I'll check in later...I've got to get to work!!!

Amy

Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!