HTTE, I have to weigh in with PDT here, your self-respect is important. The old me would put up with anything and bear any burden and swallow any offense trying to keep her. The new me has some self-respect and there is a limit to what I'm willing to put up with in the interests of trying to save our marriage.
I don't know when, but, I think that it will be soon that I will be forcing a conversation with my wife about her behavior. Go read my latest thread here, there is some good info there from PDT and Amy.
