Thanks, Puppy...wish I could be as assertive and confident everytime I deal with him. That day I was really running on adrenaline, and it worked beautifully!!! Got what I needed, and exactly what Dan is alluding to here. An open, honest convo. about the OW. Somehow, just having the person you love finally be honest about something so painful and something they've been hiding from you for a long time does make a difference. I needed that honesty to know that I too could get past it if he ever decides he wants to try again.
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
