Marisol {{{glad you found us}}}}} sorry it was a bad week for you also. So your H is going to colorado with the OW, too bad you cannot expose him to her parents. I know if my D was going with a 35 year old M man with kids, I would be hitting the roof. Glad you took the truck especially if you are paying on it. You need to know that when a H jumps into a new R so quickly even if they marry the OW, their chance of making the next M work is about 40% or less. I suggest that you start making your H accountable as far as the kids go. Tell H you want them in T with him especially your D16. Ask H is this what you want to be remembered for with your children? Amazing H is scrambling around for a car and manage to fly out for vacation. What lack of priorities. My H does not have a clue on how tight money will be for him when he moves since he never has done the bills --ever. It should be interesting. The only thing I am worried about is that H might push for a divorce because he will run out of money in the next few months and the only way to get more is by us divorcing. How sad.
Glad you are getting an Atty. You have rights. I am so glad we have this message board group. It is great support when there is no-one else. Stay strong.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09