Who could read all of my posts? I know there are usually at least 5 per day :). The thing about the self-help books and our relationship was that I was trying to put myself in a positive mindset over something that didn't seem to be positive. I don't like the fact that he seems to see me as an addiction he needs to break. The self help books are ALL about codependency. He even says he doesn't know who he is around me, as if I am some black hole sucking him in. It's frustrating too because he hasn't really been around me in almost 2 months and the dynamic has totally changed...
Anyway that was why I was trying to act "as-if". Point taken though.
Thanks for keeping an eye on me,
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!