T2L, You asked me on your last thread what "piecing" means. It means during that time we were reconcilling. (By the way, threads lock after about 100 posts)
I don't want to hi-jack...but I thought I would give a little background. H moved in with OW shortly after meeting her. He seemed like a completely different person to me. I was devastated. I ended up getting another job in my hometown (about 1000 miles away from where we were) and moved about a month later. He filed right before I moved. I thought I would never see him again.
About 3 months later he called me out of the blue. He had driven here and wanted to see me. We decided to work on things and he left OW and moved here. We pieced for about 6 months...then he did it again (different OW). It seems he has a problem...which isn't the case with all of them, so don't let my sitch discourage you. I had had enough and filed myself.
I do think DBing works....have you read the book? What kind of things are you doing for yourself? I know it is extremely hard, especially when there is an OW and even more so when they are living together....but patience is key.
