I haven't been posting much because there hasn't been much to report. My H was out of town most of last week. He did text me a little more when he was gone and called me once...so that is a small improvement. As far as I know, my H has no more excuses to travel for quite some time.
On Friday, I had dinner with a good friend of my H's. His opinion is that I need to give my H a deadline because my H won't do anything unless I force the issue.
Saturday my H came over and hung out with me and the kids for the majority of the day. We had a nice time and my H seemed comfortable. Before my H left (when he was giving me some hugs and kisses), I asked him what it is going to take in order for him to want to move back in with us. He said he didn't know. I told him he needs to figure it out and I left it at that.
Today will be an interesting day. I need to deal with my H in regard to some financial issues. We have a C appointment and then to top it off, my H is supposed to have a court appearance in regard to the D. I wonder if he will finally dismiss the D since he yet to serve me in the 13 months after he filed the papers. If he doesn't dismiss it, I am going to be doing something different...not quite sure what yet. If he does, I am going to keep talking to him about what he needs to do in order to feel comfortable moving back in with us (I can't really say "home" since he has never lived in this house).