I'm just going to throw something else out here that just came to me while posting to Ali's thread...

Closing the door for me... emotionally distancing... gave me the strength to deal with this latest stage. I wouldn't have been able to do it, UNLESS I had gotten my own self back on track.

The reality, I needed to have my own self put together, in order to deal with this latest stuff... and had I not,... H and I could and potentially would have put the final nail in the coffin 9 days ago.

Abbey

Last edited by Abbey; 09/15/08 02:32 PM.

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.