It's a roller coaster ride, I'll tell you. As I mentioned in Ali's thread... if ya'll knew the whole story... geeze... it's quite the drama! I will promise to fill the spots in, but for sake of not tempting fate... I'll remain quiet about certain aspects yet.
Suffice to say,... in the last two days (and I"ve changed my profile to reflect it)... H has admitted that he knows she wanted to attach herself to "the name". ... the family name. He has been seeing that for the last couple of weeks. Also realizes that she's a moonbat. *smile* He's realized how manipulative and a conniver she is. She's presently stopping at nothing to try to yank his strings. She's threatened him, she's trying to screw with his head, etc etc etc. She's quite the piece of work.
He also admitted something in R talks about "me"... and said... well I managed to F-up your life. That's a big step,... I told him we'll have lots of time to deal with the heart wounds... right now, we have other things we need to keep concentrate on. Eventually he'll finally realize (hopefully) that the conniving also translates into her part in his believing what he did about my "non-affair". We have time for that... all in good time.
Being his "safe" place... has actually calmed me down too. Has actually translated to being "our" safe place... for me as well as him. I didn't expect that.
Out for now... I need to get my powertools out and screw in some shelves in the garage.
Hugs to everyone Abbey
Last edited by Abbey; 09/15/0802:14 PM.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
