I know exactly how you feel about protecting your kids. I admire your committment to keeping your family together. It )leaving) is not an easy decision to make. I agree with everyone above, you have all the evidence you need. The question is what are you going to do with it? I am a little reluctant to give my opinion here because I know you are in a fragile position right now and the last thing i want to do is bring you down. From what I have read of your sitch, it is obvious that your W has lost respect for you. It seems to me that you are in serious denial. Whether the fact that your W is seeing two men is a deal breaker for you or not, I think you need to put some serious distance between you and your W. It will do you a world of good and may even shcok your wife a little (even though that is not neccesarily what you want). Again Dan, my goal here is not to smack you with a 2X4 but rather to try to give you my point of view. With the little infromation we have here, something needs to change.
