I think that is all how you are supposed to feel in this sort of situation, at the moment she will have a selective memory, it's easier to "run away" from the bad things than it is remember the good. I think that on some level it's not about you or your D, your W needs to be able to justify to herself that it was bad, otherwise she world have to admit that maybe she is sad, or maybe she made a mistake. It's not something that you can force on her, its something that she needs to realize without being pushed. Right now, our W's are more similar than ever, only difference is that my W has the kids most of the time, and her level of interest with them is higher. We both need to realize that we need to change for us not them. You are looking out for the best interests of your D and that is important, but you can't push your W into making the same commitment, right now she needs her time to run away and find herself, you just have to trust that she will realize what she is doing before your D withdraws from your W. It is hard and it is sad, i know, but it's not something that you can control. Right now you need to focus on you, you can't change the past, and appologising for the past probably wont work, just try and make the future a little bit brighter for you and D, you never know what will happen in in time.
t7-years m3-years Me:22 W:27 Wifes kids (love them like my own) D-10 D-7 Our Kids S-3
