I told them a few weeks after I found out. These men do not appear to move out right away either. When mine left, there was no advance notice. He just never came home one night and that started it. My kids were worried sick as he never called us.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19