My in laws knew about the affair while H was still living at home. H lived at home about 10 months after he told the kids and I about the A.
Like I said, my FIL has taken a hard approach to this by telling H he is not welcome in the family home while he is continuing this A, etc.
The rest of the family is supportive of me and the kids as well.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19