Wife came home after being gone all day at 9:30PM. Strange--since she is a stay home mom--and likes to use it to her advantage---that she would not not essenially want to see he kids all day as well as not wanting to be home the night before school..... This just a further example how she is only focusing on herself and no longer the kids and the house.... (I even made certain that my oldest called her before she went to sleep to say good night)
I tried not to talk to her...but she discussed two things. She had told me the day before that she made up her mind to divorce before the Summer. I had said that I had in my mind to discuss it with her next Spring...after I had more time to get things settled in the Office. Her first comment to me was that I was upset cause she beat me to it.
She is justifing her decison to leave by my comment that I too was very unhappy and wanted out anyway. That is far from the truth as I was going to try to work with her over the next 8 to 10 months to save the marriage. I was going to discusss options before she again went away to sleepaway. Amazing how words are twisted. (she said I told her father otherwise--actually her dad is upset as he knows I wanted to work this out. I will have to clear it up somehow..or should I leave it alone?? At this point, any workup would be difficult to impossible)
Also, she thanked me for doing the laundry but does not want me to touch her clothes anymore. Further example of her possibly doing this that are inappropriate and I could find out. (ie underware with staines et al??)
Monday coming and unknown of what to expect from her. Lets see if she tries to have me thrown out or threatens me....
