Yay!!!

What a great night! Sounds like you were a DB master! Well done on validating your H's feelings and not reacting. Also well done on going home when he clearly wanted more :).

I don't see one negative in the sitch. I know it mus be frustrating not to know, but as everyone says on the board, it's the actions that count. I'd keep remembering too that your H is very young, so it is really important that he come to this decision on his own and not feel pressured. That will help you to avoid something like this down the road.

Great work all around!
ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!