Everyone says when you REALLY let go and move on, the WAS comes begging back.
I don't think the little lie is too bad. I think it is better to let their mind wander. Not telling them anything lets them think everything!
Anyway, hope you have a good time with the "new guy". Keep doing what you have been, it may wake up H. Everyone also says piecing is magnitudes tougher than going through the D.....
*hugs and prayers*
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