Hi Lodo, I've been reading your posts since I started this. Hard to believe how much time has passed. I love reading everything you write. Anyway you sound like such a chef, I know you say it's no big deal but for a lot of people it is!

Several points I totally agree with you on, my H was the one going thru the depression and job stress and finding himself, I thought I was doing the right thing by letting him have his space. He didn't want to talk to me or any of our friends and family and I had 2 kids and a busy home to take care of ( I also work) but bottom line I made a commitment and would never have broken it. I guess the saddest thing to me is he felt (and feels) totally justified in breaking it! I didn't appreciate, etc. etc. etc.

Well I guess I just get what you're saying.

BTW where can I see you in that leopard robe ? ?


Me 46/H 48
M 19/T 20
S 16 D 9
Bomb 2/9/08
OW 2/29/08
Ended A 3/12/08 (LIAR)

Found proof 4/11/08
Piecing ? 8/24/08

"When the rain washes you clean... you'll know"