I'll give it a try. My mom has been after me since I got home to put ice on it. Lol. You mothers. . .
I will be ok. It's good to have a little space here and there. Besides I have my kitties to entertain me. I missed their little faces!
The only thing I am "worried" about now is that this session on Tuesday is our last joint session. After that we are going to do our sessions individually until we decide what we want. We get our counseling paid for by the military but only 6 sessions are covered and so this will be our 6th. We would have to pay $100 per session if we wanted to continue going together and until my hubby decides what he wants I just cannot justify spending the money (that I don't really have) to keep going to talk about "if you choose to stay married." We have both talked about it and I really think that things will accelerate if we go alone, at least as far as him making up his mind. He did seem different after he had his individual session a month or so ago. So we shall see. It's just nerve wracking since I won't be there in the room to contribute and to hear everything that is said. But that is when I pray and leave it up to God. It's easier that way!
He did say that he is going to come up in the morning even though our session is not until 5. At first he said he wasn't even sure he was going to come and then it changed to ok I'll come but only for the session and then it changed to I'll come up when I wake up. Lol. Confused? Yes he is.