I am so sorry. If I remember correctly, you did get along. Maybe you can ask for a piece of jewelery that MIL wore for D9. I have the necklace and earrings of my grandma that were her favorites. They mean alot to me.
Hugs to you and your wonderful kids.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory