Hi Sep! It sounds to me that your H in whatever way knew that you sere doing somethihng today Maybe it was intuition but he knew something And to top it all off he felt left out (perfect!!)
You had an excellent day of GAL and you H was so jealous lol. Your SIL sounds like so much fun and it seems like she really looks up to you.
I think if your DAM spoke to his family about your sitch then you might not have them on your side. It seems that your DAM has said nothing about your R to them...def a good sign
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Yay Sep! It sounds like you had a great day with SIL. It cracks me up that he is always texting you about books or movies as it seems like his way of "checking up on you" Hehe. Silly man. At least he is watching you, that means that he has not moved on and you have certainly got his interest. It's only a matter of time Tootsie Pop!
That's really cute that your H was sending texts at 1 AM, then restarted in the morning! I think that is a really good sign :).
I also like the way that you were with his SIL. I know we are told to leave family members out, but I have a sneaking suspicion that if we DB with them, it could actually be a positive thing. The fact that you told your SIL that you are not angry really shows such maturity and grace. That is the kind of thing that SHOULD get back to your H, IMO.
Hope you're having a good day!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Daisy - I sure hope that it is only a matter of time!!! The book he asked for this time I do have...so I guess that gives him a reason to have to come over now....and that always ends up with a ML session
ITH - I do hope that it gets back to H that I said I'm not angry but even if it doesn't it served it's purpose because I don't want her to be mad at her brother because of my feelings. If she is upset at his actions then that I can not change but to be mad at him because I am still hurt, I don't want. I also did like that he continued texting in the morning and through out the afternoon...then I was on his mind for the whole day.
Jen - I think he did feel left out especially since this fair was something that "we" used to do every year. I think he has told his mom some R things but she thinks that he is wrong for the way that he acted.
All together I think it was good and I do like that he was not upset about me spending time with his sister. As positive as the whole day was I did feel a little sad going to the fair without him.
Luckily, NJ is a small state, so you don't have too many roads to choose from...LOL
Nah, that was a very good job. I love the part where he asked you what show and his response to your answer. It was an "I want to be there too!" kind of answer.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Well no contact again since Sunday..lol. I think I am getting used to the pattern. I get used to not hearing from him..then like clockwork on the 3rd/4th day a bunch of texts. It's like that's how long he can hold out for. The only thing I hate is that once he reaches out I always want more and feel a bit sad the next day when I realize that there will be a few more days without contact again.
I should be grateful that he does reach out every few days period..I know.
I started the pt job orientation this past Saturday and this week will all be orientation so that will keep my mind off of things for awhile. The only thing that sucks is no computer access like at ft job!! LoL. So I will just chat with you guys when I get in later tonight.
Hi, I'm the same way...things go well for a bit and then I want more only to be disappointed. I think we set ourselves up It's a rollercoaster for one.
"talk" later...have fun at the orientation!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Yes it is quite a rollercoaster. Sometimes I wonder if he goes through similar emotional rollercoasters too. Oh well it's not like he would ever admit to it so there is no use wondering.
Orientation went pretty well. Had dinner with the manager and set up what my schedule will be.
Maybe it was intuition but he knew something 
It's a rollercoaster for one.