She denies that she is screwing around. My accusation against her denial equals her affairs not officially existing. I'm hoping that an investigator can get me hard proof of her infidelity and then I can force the issue. As long as she denies screwing around, any accusation that I bring will only result in her sidestepping the issue or otherwise turning things around so that I'm the one that did something wrong.
If I just wanted to divorce her, Colorado is a no-fault state and I don't need a reason. As much as I waffle back and forth about what to do, I'm still here and still trying to create a relationship with my W when it would be a lot easier to just eject.