twinhope believe it or not H might have forgotten anniversary since they have been so self absorbed. So do not get too down. I still believe that the OW in your case will get sick of the family life with your twins. They say most affairs pass the 6 month mark. I miss the companionship of my H, sometimes I "forget" he is moving and almost start to sit next to him or bend over and kiss him. Then I start to panic. I can't believe in 2 weeks he will no longer be in the house. Since I have no one here but my D, it will be so isolated. My heart is breaking. I can't escape to my job because I see him there everyday and that will be additional torture. Need to stay stron and keep my dignity in this mess. one day at a time.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
